Nurturing Meaningful Relationships  

Cultivating Deeper Connections  

Fostering Healing & Growth

Nurturing Meaningful Relationships   

Cultivating Deeper Connections  

Fostering Healing & Growth

Nurturing Meaningful Relationships   ~ Cultivating Deeper Connections  ~ Fostering Healing & Growth

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“The essence of working with another person is to be present as a living being. And that is lucky, because if we had to be smart, or good, or mature, or wise, then we would probably be in trouble. But, what matters is not that. What matters is to be a human being with another human being.” – Eugene Gendlin

Offerings

Nurturing Meaningful Relationships  

Cultivating Deeper Connections  

Fostering Healing & Growth

“The essence of working with another person is to be present as a living being. And that is lucky, because if we had to be smart, or good, or mature, or wise, then we would probably be in trouble. But, what matters is not that. What matters is to be a human being with another human being.” ~Eugene Gendlin

Offerings
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the process

The process

the process

remembering

Rediscover your inherent worth and lovability in a safe, co-created space of vulnerability and safety. Reconnect with your inner compass, your highest self and core values—embrace who you’ve always been before the world told you who you were “supposed” to be.

restoring

Rooted and Nurtured in Connection, witness and befriend the parts of you that have been left behind. Bring these parts back into alignment with you true self and inner compass, embracing them as part of the whole. 

relating

Foster the relationship with yourself through building self trust and confidence to fully show up in the world. Then, relate to those around you. Allow pain to be met with tenderness and courage,  where you can challenge yourself to expand your worldviews and perspectives. 

responding

Embrace the journey with humility and recognize the privilege you hold to foster change even through the smallest acts. Holding  yourself to a standard built on self trust that you are now able to reach, connect with your Communities, and the World around you, cultivating transformation that extends beyond your individual life. 

Hi there, I’m Rebecca

My passion for supporting others is rooted in a deep respect and belief in the power of the human spirt and it’s ability to heal, grow, and love. This belief is my true guide in all I do. Or at least, it is when I let it. It’s the force that brings me back home to myself time and time again. It’s the anchor that steadies me and acts as my inner compass. 

“Love is more than a feeling. Love is a form of sweet labour: fierce, bloody, imperfect, and life-giving. A choice we make over and over again. If love is sweet labour, love can be taught, modelled, and practiced. This labour engages all our emotions. Joy is the gift of love. Grief is the price of love. Anger protects that which is loved. And when we think we have reached our limit, wonder is the act that returns us to love.” – Valarie Kaur

Read more about my background & areas of practice Here:

 

Meet Rebecca

Cornerstones

  • You are inherently worthy of experiencing loving and mutually respectful relationships in your life.
  • Your desire to break free from old patterns and heal past wounds is meaningful and is deserving of your time and attention
  • Your longing for thriving and life-giving connections is both natural and healthy.  
  • Strengthening your self-leadership, allowing you to navigate life and work with pride, is a worthy pursuit
  • The narratives from your own family of origin do not have to hold you captive. they can be re-written, paving the way for healthier relationships that honour your own desires and values.                            

Cornerstones

  • You are inherently worthy of experiencing loving and mutually respectful relationships in your life.
  • Your desire to break free from old patterns and heal past wounds is meaningful and is deserving of your time and attention
  • Your longing for thriving and life-giving connections is both natural and healthy.  
  • Strengthening your self-leadership, allowing you to navigate life and work with pride, is a worthy pursuit
  • The narratives from your own family of origin do not have to hold you captive. they can be re-written, paving the way for healthier relationships that honour your own desires and values.                            

My Cornerstones

  • You are inherently worthy of experiencing loving and mutually respectful relationships in your life.                                                           

  • Your longing for thriving and life-giving connections is both natural and healthy.
  • Your desire to break free from old patterns and heal past wounds is meaningful and is deserving of your time and attention
  • Strengthening your self-leadership, allowing you to navigate life and work with pride, is a worthy pursuit
  • The narratives from your own family of origin do not have to hold you captive. they can be re-written, paving the way for healthier relationships that honour your own desires and values.

Offerings

Nurturing Meaningful Relationships   Cultivating Deeper Connections  Fostering Healing & Growth

Nurturing Meaningful Relationships  

Cultivating Deeper Connections  

Fostering Healing & Growth

Individuals and Couples counselling

It is part of the human experience to long for belonging and connection. We are deeply interconnected and social creatures, and when our connections are ruptured, it is deeply unsettling and painful. Sometimes those ruptures happen early on in our childhood, which then impacts the way we relate to others later in life. Sometimes those ruptures happen in our current relationships, and we haven’t experienced the healing needed in order to repair them. And sometimes those ruptures are with our own selves, where we have had to abandon ourselves in order to feel safe in the world, inevitably choosing belonging over our own authenticity and needing to find out way back home to ourselves.

When you enter my office, whether in person or virtually, you’ll find a safe and welcoming space where all the different pieces of you are accepted and belong. Together, we’ll build trust and understanding as you begin to explore your inner world and relational dynamics that contribute to the parts of your life that are keeping you stuck.  Rooted in curiosity, your journey will unfold in a space of safety, support, and understanding, allowing you to navigate challenges with courage and compassion. Our sessions are sacred, unique to you, and free from judgment.

Together, we’ll address the old stories of fear, shame, anger, or pain and you’ll have the freedom to  explore, and bring forth healing in your life and relationships.

Curated Values based leadership Coaching

For Leaders, Parents, and Individuals, leadership coaching offers tailored support for your goals.


There is more than one way to lead, and it’s not always in an office. Life’s fast pace often makes it challenging to pause and reflect on your direction, your dreams, and the importance of nurturing connections. Throughout your coaching journey, we’ll explore how core values can serve as your inner compass, guiding you through life’s complexities with self-trust and confidence.

Key Elements For Coaching:

For Parents & Families: It’s all about guiding you and your loved ones to set clear goals for the future and stay rooted in what truly matters to you. This journey fuels personal growth while fostering a sense of togetherness, making conversations smoother and nurturing mutual respect for each other’s space and needs. Ultimately, this cultivates a more resilient, joy-infused family dynamic.

For Leaders: Whether in the workplace or at home, learning to define and embrace your core values can be transformative. It holds the potential to inspire those around you and generate meaningful change. Through coaching, you will experience a deeper sense of purpose, embodying a life that reflects what is most important to you.

couples intensives

Step into an enriching 8-week Couples Intensive, designed to ignite profound transformation in your relationship journey. Discover research-driven strategies and compassionate practices curated to deepen connection and understanding between you and your partner. Through experiential learning and supportive guidance, explore new pathways to intimacy, trust, and resilience.Experience firsthand the journey towards a relationship filled with growth, joy, and lasting love.

Offerings

Nurturing Meaningful Relationships   Cultivating Deeper Connections  Fostering Healing & Growth

Individuals and Couples counselling

It is part of the human experience to long for belonging and connection. We are deeply interconnected and social creatures, and when our connections are ruptured, it is deeply unsettling and painful. Sometimes those ruptures happen early on in our childhood, which then impacts the way we relate to others later in life. Sometimes those ruptures happen in our current relationships, and we haven’t experienced the healing needed in order to repair them. And sometimes those ruptures are with our own selves, where we have had to abandon ourselves in order to feel safe in the world, inevitably choosing belonging over our own authenticity and needing to find out way back home to ourselves.

When you enter my office, whether in person or virtually, you’ll find a safe and welcoming space where all the different pieces of you are accepted and belong. Together, we’ll build trust and understanding as you begin to explore your inner world and relational dynamics that contribute to the parts of your life that are keeping you stuck.  Rooted in curiosity, your journey will unfold in a space of safety, support, and understanding, allowing you to navigate challenges with courage and compassion. Our sessions are sacred, unique to you, and free from judgment.

Together, we’ll address the old stories of fear, shame, anger, or pain and you’ll have the freedom to  explore, and bring forth healing in your life and relationships.

Curated Values based leadership Coaching

For Leaders, Parents, and Individuals, leadership coaching offers tailored support for your goals.


There is more than one way to lead, and it’s not always in an office. Life’s fast pace often makes it challenging to pause and reflect on your direction, your dreams, and the importance of nurturing connections. Throughout your coaching journey, we’ll explore how core values can serve as your inner compass, guiding you through life’s complexities with self-trust and confidence.

Key Elements For Coaching:

For Parents & Families: It’s all about guiding you and your loved ones to set clear goals for the future and stay rooted in what truly matters to you. This journey fuels personal growth while fostering a sense of togetherness, making conversations smoother and nurturing mutual respect for each other’s space and needs. Ultimately, this cultivates a more resilient, joy-infused family dynamic.

For Leaders: Whether in the workplace or at home, learning to define and embrace your core values can be transformative. It holds the potential to inspire those around you and generate meaningful change. Through coaching, you will experience a deeper sense of purpose, embodying a life that reflects what is most important to you.

couples intensives

Step into an enriching 8-week Couples Intensive, designed to ignite profound transformation in your relationship journey. Discover research-driven strategies and compassionate practices curated to deepen connection and understanding between you and your partner. Through experiential learning and supportive guidance, explore new pathways to intimacy, trust, and resilience.Experience firsthand the journey towards a relationship filled with growth, joy, and lasting love.

My commitment to you

From the very beginning, I want you to feel truly heard and supported.

My goal is to create a safe and welcoming space where you can freely express your thoughts and emotions, and where we can build a strong and supportive relationship. Helping you feel more connected, and empowered to show up authentically in your life is my passion.

I’m dedicated to seeing you and your relationships not just grow but also find real connection and mutual joy in each other. This commitment to your well-being is at the heart of everything we do in our sessions

My commitment to you

From the very beginning, I want you to feel truly heard and supported.

My goal is to create a safe and welcoming space where you can freely express your thoughts and emotions, and where we can build a strong and supportive relationship. Helping you feel more connected, and empowered to show up authentically in your life is my passion.

I’m dedicated to seeing you and your relationships not just grow but also find real connection and mutual joy in each other. This commitment to your well-being is at the heart of everything we do in our sessions

Your purpose doesn’t need to be anything more than letting go and living authentically in each moment. Your truest path will emerge from this presence.

-Cory Muscara

Your purpose doesn’t need to be anything more than letting go and living authentically in each moment. Your truest path will emerge from this presence.

-Cory Muscara

Your purpose doesn’t need to be anything more than letting go and living authentically in each moment. Your truest path will emerge from this presence.

-Cory Muscara

Testimonials

★★★★★

"Rebecca has been a part of our parenting and relationship journey for years, and always has the most honest and practical wisdom to offer. She is extremely experienced, competent and intuitive, but also very relatable and down to earth at the same time. She truly understands what it is like to journey as a human, parent, and partner through this world and her depth of knowledge brings such a wonderful warmth and ease to any interaction."

"Rebecca is a fountain of knowledge! I am so blessed to have been able to connect with her and to feel comfortable / vulnerable enough to confide in her and I am lucky to have learnt alot of valuable information especially being a Mama of twin teenagers . I have learnt how to rethink situations and how it’s okay to not be okay sometimes . Life is a rollercoaster and with Rebecca’s knowledge/ training it’s a whole new world . I highly recommend Rebecca!!."

"Rebecca has been life changing for us! I first came to know of Evita Consulting through a work shop that was offered about a parents inner critic. This workshop was SO helpful for me. It really made me think and taught me things I hadn’t even considered. I knew we needed to work with her. We’ve been seeing Rebecca now for a couple of months and she has helped us more than any other professional in the field. Our family is the most in harmony it has ever been thanks to the tools Rebecca has given us. :)"

Rebecca is very approachable and down to earth. She is really good at thinking on her feet and offering very practical strategies to whatever you might be dealing with. I have gone to her for parenting and relationship strategies, and for my own personal growth. She has been doing this for years, and has a passion for learning new things, so as a result, she has a wealth of knowledge and a variety of tools she can use, depending on your needs. I highly recommend connecting with her or attending one of her workshops - you have nothing to lose!

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